Chain of Fools

I cannot share my opinion about Jordyn Woods for the very reason that I’ve been that young girl who has had a kiss stolen away from her by a man who’s ego is too high to asses the consequences. To Khloe Kar*ashian, no one deserves to be publicly humiliated (especially us, Cancers, because we cannot take the anxiety of self-defense); however, to blame a young girl for the destruction of a family that was already in fragile pieces, is pathetic and should be shamed. And self-love ain't always easy!

As Jordyn described on Red Table Talk, Tristian Thompson, the kiss was consensual and definitely unprovoked. Khloe’s adamance that there was more to the story only reveals her own insecurities of intimacy. You see, for those who do not have a great sense of self-confidence and self-esteem, any fragment of intimacy is prided and held at the highest regard of love—along with sex, dancing with another person whom is not your spouse, and possibly even meaningless social interactions such as a hug. When there is a lack of confidence in the love that you provide and maintain with your significant others, victim blaming is not present. In fact, the outcome of lack of confidence is virtually always victim blaming. To think that an outsider is the cause of an unhealthy relationship is deafening to the reality that you and your significant other do not love each other in the ways you fantasize.

There are two ways that women can see the light: follow their instructions of their intuition or as act in denial of their intuition. One thing I am almost certain, those are the two greatest decision one ever has to make. Your source of intuition can come from s number of things—God, your sister circle, your mom, nature, Black Obsidian gems, some energy clearing. A second thing I am almost certain, it shows up loud and clear. Clearly there are missing pieces that are not being taken into account like the child in between two loveless parents or the odd necessity of publicizing your pain. But when you reject your intuition for that validity of insecurity, there’s no winning after that!

Without knowing the full details, I can see that Tristian does not love nor respect the woman who birthed his daughter. Khloe’s response is nothing but a scorned woman who has no grip on her relationship. I’m sure that she feels protective of the intimacy she has with Tristian—and she should! Yet, as she sees her baby daddy repeatedly dog her in her very public life, she only feels right blaming the only other woman used as a pawn in his runaway lifestyle.

Forget attacking the other countless women confirmed as Tristian’s toys—Jordyn Woods is the one that sealed the deal! 

Jordyn will be fine as long as she looks forward—away from lifestyle around the Kar*ashians. Khloe will be fine as long as she stops replaying the humiliating situation constantly in her head and heed the advice of her fellow women that self-respect goes a long way in a partnership with man. And for Tristian, may you fall ten-fold over down a grand staircase and watch—as you lay pained in bed—as your seeds reject the legacy you leave and prosper with no relationship to your name. The world doesn’t need anymore children involving themselves in grown folks mess!

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